You know how the old saying goes: "Everyone has an opinion." This is apparent online and on social media. When folks can post without having their names attached to their cruel comments, they'll let the nasty fly.
Trolls like these need to be called out for their unkind remarks. Granted, they're just hoping to get a rise out of people. One woman from Wisconsin responded to them in a way that is getting her much love and props from the online community. Her inspiring message has gone viral; she's shot down the trolls after giving them a thorough tongue-lashing.
Jenna Kutcher is an Instagrammer and host of the "Goal Digger" podcast. She is a strong, healthy, beautiful woman in her own right. She's married to this guy: drew Kutcher, aka "Mr. 6-Pack." Drew is a personal trainer and health coach. He and Jenna met in college and have been together for ten years and in love every moment of that decade.
So some mean folks have voiced, quite unkindly how could Drew be with a woman like Jenna. He's so fit, and she's curvaceous.
Jenna addressed the haters head-on; her message of body positivity and self-love has gone viral.
"Someone once slid into my DMs and told me they couldn't believe I had managed to land a guy as good looking as @kickingitwithkutch . I'll be honest that I was taken aback," Jenna wrote on Instagram.
Jenna said that yes, she does feel insecure; those trolls hit her in a soft spot. "Part of my insecurity with my body has stemmed around being married to Mr. 6-Pack himself. Why should I, a curvy girl get him? I feel unworthy and when I write narratives in my head that because I am not thin, I don't deserve him."
Jenna and Drew's love is the real deal. They share more than just a physical attraction. This man has embraced every curve, every dimple, pound and pimple for the last ten years and has always reminded me that I'm beautiful even when my inner dialogue doesn't match (and when I haven't showered in days.)
Imagine someone loving you for who you are as a person. So yes, my thighs kiss, my arms are big, and my bum is bumpy but there is just more of me for him to love and I chose the man that could handle alllll that (and so much more!)
I loved this part of Jenna's post. It got to the heart of so many insecurities and negative self-talk that we all experience. "I am so much more than my body, so is he, and so are you. True love doesn't see the size."
After her post went viral, drew chimed in to let the world know how much he loves his wife for more than just her body. But he loves her curves too.
"Isn't marriage supposed to be about love, acceptance and cherishing one another no matter what?" Drew wrote on his own Instagram page. "The way we look has nothing to do with the way we love and viral or not; we're just thankful to have each other and inspire others."
He continued, "At the end of the day worthiness can't come from other people's opinions of you, it has to come from within and if doing life with my beautiful wife is newsworthy, then let us be an example of what real #relationshipgoals are!"
Well said! Never allow others to dictate how you should feel about yourself. Love you for you, and your real beauty will shine through.
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